This study set out to investigate the problems suffered by wives of RAF servicemen who were active in the Gulf War (Jan-Feb 1991). A sample of 12 women were given a semi-structured interview which sought their feelings about being separated from their husbands under such circumstances, and their views on life in the services in general. In addition, a number of health professionals who dealt with the women during this time were also interviewed. The results demonstrate that the women were suffering from the effects of severe stress, with 75 per cent at risk of developing serious illness. The effects of the stress touched many aspects of their emotional, social and family lives. Many negative aspects of life in the services were also identified. The author concludes that there is a need for formal support for these women at all times when their husbands are in the RAF, and not just in times of crisis.